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The question here is, why.
Yeah, sometimes we consider ourselves to serve sincerely, nourishing the
thoughts of people around us with the perspective of us feeling pleasant with
whatever we’re providing them. Be it
emotional comfort, motivational support, warmth treatment, unprecedented
attention, or just simply tucking their well-being into our norm like slipping
a 5 inch smart phone into your pocket.
You felt at comfort, so does them.
Everybody lives happily ever after.
Or so does it goes. You can have
all sorts of feelings for a certain person.
If for male, they could felt accepted, feel normal at their peak, or the
final ascension, falling in love with their counterparts. For female, they could felt appreciated, able
to neglect the awkward tension about their opposite sexes, or just like male
does, falling in love with their opposites.
However, is everybody treating each other sincerely? I doubt, the ratio
amount of people who could be considered with attitude labelled “Nice” or “Bad” doesn’t goes proportionally to each other. One outweighs another.
So, just define the both terms in a more viewable
container. If a person treating another
well, just like their own brethrens, it’s almost possible what things that they
could accomplish for that person. If
they’re older than their counterparts, most probably they would try to act like
an elder towards that person. Putting
the importance of the person that they care about far greater than anything,
providing an essential bonding for the people they love in all sorts of methods
they could think of. If it’s the way
that the people who cares about their opposite is younger than their counterparts,
a mutual feeling known as “respect”
will surely arose. They respect their
counterparts in everything; manner of living, accomplishments, or sense of
treatment. The stuff that I mentioned is
for the scope of a person respecting another person, in a sense that relates
people who have no blood relation whatsoever towards each other in a manner
that the society perceive as, “Liking”
or what I proclaim “Social Enlightenment”. It only works, should both sides have no
inner intention towards each other.
Now, it’s the exact opposite. What would happen if we care for another
person with a motive; be it intentionally or unintentionally. Relating my own experiences so the story
links, this perspective can be related like when you fell in love with another,
the type of relation that is slanted towards one-sided clap (or, painful slap). Relationships exist via early respects about
a person. It can be in a way that you
prefer: enjoying how they scold people, the soft tune in their voice, their
presence’s aura, or even the most down-to-ridiculous excuse of their fashion
sense. Feelings bud, as you started to
feel an attachment towards your opposite.
Worst case scenario, you might felt so comfortable with that person’s
presence that you started to portray your “inner dumbness” with each &
every one of their presence. I remember
an episode of Jimmy Neutron Boy Genius, “slap-happy”-ing in front of his crush
Cindy Vortex (that cartoon character with a head like a walnut) even though he’s
a genius that supersedes NASA. When you
did this too much, people might have the perception you’re a pushover. Even if you like that person (boys like
girls, & so on). The trust that you
constructed, it’ll definitely shatter should the moment come when the person profess
their true emotion.
So, it came to the question that I asked earlier. Why do people toy with each other’s
emotion? Yeah, they could conceal it in
a sense that they act different to what they think in order to shield their
actual view about us. They could even
act harsh towards that person, in order to camouflage what they actually wanted
to profess. Which way is better? Is it good for you, if you already could
acknowledge what they wanted from you & act neutral as if nothing’s going
on, or return to reality & do what a logical person would do? What I want to relay is, feeling is something
abstract. There’s no percentage to
totally describe its current state, measurement to decide the volume of its
concentration, or comparison mediums to accommodate its real status. We can’t pour our full focus towards people
that we care about, as later even the slightest endeavour would reflect back
our good opinion about those people.
We
really must open our views on the society, judging people’s actions
unbiased. Even if we expect the good
actions of people who’s nice to us as being actually “Nice”, or the bad practices of people who shuns us as being truly “Bad”, things just doesn’t seems as it
should be. Retreat when you feel
cheated. Recuperate when you felt at
ease. Reserve your feelings for people
who actually expresses sincere care about you, not artificial feeling. That’s logic.
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